The Unique Pain of the “Unwilling Spouse”

When you are the one who does not want the divorce, you may experience:

• Shock and disbelief
• Spiritual confusion
• Deep rejection
• Fear of financial or family collapse
• Shame within your church community
• Anger at God

You may feel like you are holding a rope that the other person has already dropped.

We want to talk about that rope.

How long do you hold it?
What does surrender mean?
What does trust mean when the outcome is not what you want?