Knowing when to Tap Out

 Please check back soon, this site will be taking on a new look—and a new perspective.

I recently read “Navigating Divorce for the Christian Man” by J.J. Axton and with God’s help, I now have the clarity and direction to move forward with this website.

This isn’t the story I ever wanted to write. I truly believed God had a ministry planned for Katie and me—something beautiful, lasting, and impactful. But that vision is gone now.

Still, I believe God hasn’t abandoned the story. He’s simply rewriting it—with new purpose, even if it’s not the one I had hoped for.

This is a story of betrayal and unfaithfulness. Of Christian hypocrisy mixed with worldly deceit.
But it’s also a story of healing, truth, and redemption.

If you’ve been where I am, I pray this website will help you begin to heal. That said, this is my second marriage, the first I destroyed. More on that later.

This site will grow as God reveals what He wants me to share. My intent is to help other men—husbands who’ve been lied to, who’ve had their trust shattered until they could no longer carry the weight alone.

As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another. (Proverbs 27:17)